10.29.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 10:03 am by webmaster
Today I want to address the one million dollar question: what women do find attractive in a man.
What Women Say Is Irrelevant
If you directly ask a woman what she likes in a man, you can be sure she will give a déjà vu answer such as “Oh I like them strong and tall” or “Oh l want a gentle man who will take care of me” or “Oh I prefer a mysterious man with dark hair”.
So remember this rule: what a woman says has nothing to do with how she’ll actually respond in a masculine presence.
Be aware that when a woman says she prefers some type of guy, she’s just stating a general preference.
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10.22.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 9:15 am by webmaster
You’re probably familiar with the following scenario:
Let’s say you invite a woman to a glass of wine for Friday night. She accepts and you tell her that you will call her Friday morning for the details.
Then she calls you on Thursday to tell you she got an invitation from some other dude and that she cannot make it.
Hurt?
That’s the Game
It will happen. Women will simply fail to show up for dates. This will happen fairly frequently, and it’s just part of the game.
Here is what you should do.
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10.15.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 9:06 am by webmaster
While men are mostly proficient with verbal communication, most of them are inexperienced when it comes to interpret the ‘language’ women speak. In particular, men have often a difficult time reading a woman’s signs of interest or disinterest.
Here I want to share with you some tips that will help you read a woman’s signs of interest.
Here We Go
It’s Not The Words
A woman will very rarely – if ever – directly acknowledge verbally that she’s attracted to you. If that’s the case, beware as she may try to manipulate you or get something from you.
Different women do different things when they are attracted to a man, and those things are mostly non-verbal.
The below list shows some of the more common signs of attraction
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10.08.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 8:25 am by webmaster
What Is Chemistry?
Have you ever been searching for love armed with a list of qualities desired in a mate or lover, such as honesty, fidelity, loyalty, sense of humor, intelligence, warmth, etc. ? Yet when that person appears you said, she’s a really nice person, but nothing clicked, just no “chemistry.”
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09.24.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 11:00 am by webmaster
Let’s say you’ve been in a relationship with a girl for several months or years, and it’s been framed as monogamous.
Both of you have agreed that this relationship is about exclusivity.
And then, one day you found out that she cheats, and she tells you about it in tears. She says she feels terrible and it was a weak moment for her.
What do you do from there? Leave her because she broke the rules? Give her another chance, thereby opening the door to more of this type of behaviour? Give her another chance, but at a price?
If that resonates with you, your psyche is probably polarized on this subject. Well, after you’ve read this article, you won’t be polarized anymore.
Don’t backward rationalize
First, be aware that we, as men, tend to naturally rationalize events after they occurred.
We attempt to structure a woman’s feelings into some sort of logical framework. I.e. “She broke it off so it wasn’t technically cheating but I misunderstood and didn’t know she broke off the exclusivity xyz etc.” (Picture Ross’s character in Friends for full impression).
Remember. Women base their decisions on feelings.
And so if you stop making a woman feel good and some guy steps in and makes her feel good in that precise moment when she was feeling bad, then you’re done.
It may look selfish from a male point of view. But when it comes to relationships, women base their actions on what feels good in that moment. That’s just the way it is.
It’s irrelevant how many times you had said “I love you” or if you had been married for x years.
And you can be making love to a woman for four hours non-stop giving her multiple orgasms and if at four hours and five minutes you say or do something to hurt her - she will close up like you’re the worst partner in the world in that exact moment.
So don’t expect a woman’s behaviour to follow a logical pattern corresponding to your past history, how you categorize your relationship, or your track record.
It’s Done
If it’s too late and she cheated on you, then … well… it’s done.
Done. End of Story. End of hypothetical.
If you are ever cheated on, never return to the relationship.
The damage is done, and you will only be caught in a nightmarish spiral of fear and jealousy.
Get back out in business and find another woman that you can start on new ground with.
Do no try to establish exclusivity
And finally be done with exclusivity altogether.
You have to do one or the other. The guys who believe in exclusivity but accept that “some shit just happens” are the ones who’ve been tooled mercilessly and keep coming back for more.
What if, instead of needing to know you can trust a woman, you take trust off the table entirely?
Focus on your lifestyle. No woman deserves to be all the time in an alpha male’s thoughts.
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Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 11:00 am by webmaster
Let’s say you’ve been in a relationship with a girl for several months or years, and it’s been framed as monogamous.
Both of you have agreed that this relationship is about exclusivity.
And then, one day you found out that she cheats, and she tells you about it in tears. She says she feels terrible and it was a weak moment for her.
What do you do from there? Leave her because she broke the rules? Give her another chance, thereby opening the door to more of this type of behaviour? Give her another chance, but at a price?
If that resonates with you, your psyche is probably polarized on this subject. Well, after you’ve read this article, you won’t be polarized anymore.
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09.17.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 10:54 am by webmaster
Make it sexual
When you meet a woman, a window of potential opens. She wonders if you will sweep her off her feet.
If you let that window close she will make the presumption you either don’t like her in a sexual way or are afraid to make it sexual. At that point, she will become bored and either place you in the “let’s just be friends” category or just walk away.
That’s why you don’t want to play safe by only bringing up “nice guy” topics to talk about.
You want to sex the convo up.
The truth
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09.03.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 9:08 am by webmaster
Continued from Part 1.
Be Sexual
Talk about sex.
Mention things that you like being done to you but most girls are not keen on. Talk about it like you are casually talking about the weather.
Just be comfortable letting her see your sexual side, because she is your friend after all.
Once you tell her a little bit about what you like, close up a little and act somewhat apprehensive.
Say “Hey, this is not fair! Here I am giving you the inside scoop and getting nothing in return!” Prod her for a few sexual details… what her favourite position is…. what gives her the most powerful orgasm….who was her
best lay and why.
If she gets suspicious or uncomfortable, tell her that if she was really your friend she’d give you some killer tips and how its good karma because one day some lucky girl will thank her.
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08.20.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 1:19 am by webmaster
I want to share with you a very intimate secret.
In fact, more than a secret, it is a skill that I want to share with you.
And this skillet is about… How to convert friends into lovers.
Not just any friends either…close friends!
If you apply the ideas I’ll share in this article, you’ll become a true Friend-Zone Escape Artist!
Onwards onto some deep revelations…
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08.13.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 3:13 am by webmaster
The Three Word Man: Ass Kissing Guy
I believe the male archetype that mostly frustrates a woman is the ass kissing guy.
The ass kissing guy is her boy.
The ass kissing guy is the one who gives her whatever she wants.
The ass kissing guy follows his woman around saying “OK honey, whatever you want” and “I’m sorry” and “What’s wrong sweetie?”
The ass kissing guy actually should be called ass kissing girly-man, because he acts kind of like a girl.
Women who have dominant and controlling traits like to have an ass kissing guy around as a boyfriend for awhile - sometimes they even marry them.
The Visible Attributes of the Ass Kissing Guy
Another terminology for ass kissing guys is beta guys, as opposed to alpha men.
In nature, the beta animal is the one that is secondary to the Alpha. In many groups of animals, this indicates only the next rank down from the leader.
With that said, here are some ass kissing or beta guy behaviour traits.
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