02.29.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 12:00 am by webmaster
There’s something that often happens when you’re out playing the ‘seduction game’ – that is, when you’re actively looking out for girls you think you’d like to hook-up with. Many men have experienced it, and many thousands of men still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game. It usually goes something like this: you’re in a group, talking to a couple of girls. You’re with a friend or two, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a party. You’ve got your eye on one girl in the group in particular and want to make something happen, make a bit of a connection. Thing is, she’s proving the hardest to connect to – sure, she smiles and talks to you nicely and politely, but she’s not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much, if at all. It’s like she’s playing hard to get or something, whereas her female friends seem to be much more playful and flirty.
This doesn’t happen because you aren’t her type or just because sometimes these things happen (or don’t) – there’s a different, special reason the girl you’re interested in doesn’t appear to be interested in you and it’s got a lot to do with psychology and social standing. You see, when you show you’re interested in a good-looking girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently bump up her ego and feeling of self-worth. She knows you’ve chosen and are most interested in her and likes this feeling of elevated importance. However, she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously attracted to YOU, she’ll lose the higher social value she has over her friends (probably the reason you targeted her in the first place), so she therefore maintains her unattainable, “I’m a bit too good for you” status.
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02.27.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 7:11 am by webmaster
Congratulations. You got a date! The problem is… you’re not really a verbal aikido expert. So you’re anxious at the perspective of not knowing what to say.Here are some practical tips I want to share with you.
Let’s begin with the don’ts.
Don’t be the Mr. Bean of dating. Avoid talking about past relationships, abortion or war in Iraq. Religion is not really the best date topic either.
Do not complain about your day at work or about life in general. That’s not very attractive.
Don’t get caught up in the trivialities of life. Do not tell everything about you. But do not hide everything either. You want to make a woman comfortable sure, but you don’t want to become her doormat.
Here’s the golden rule: do not try to please a woman. Do not say what a woman wants to hear if you don’t mean it! This is so… unalpha.
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02.25.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 6:52 am by webmaster
Ever wonder what is the best way to learn? Yes! You’re right. From mistakes and obstacles other people meet.The article I’m going to share today is written by Thundercat. In this article he is going to unravel a very interesting solution to it so, read on…
Hey Mr. Matthews, I like your e mails a lot but there is one unusual problem with me. I like a girl in my chemistry class but the problem with her is that she only comes and goes in the class and always has her best friend (she’s a girl) with her.
They Both are always GLUED together so it makes very difficult for me to approach her and talk to her. I tried a lot of times to approach her, after some time they Both start talking and I just sit staring at them.
There is only one month left for this semester to end and after that I will loose her if I don’t do anything but what can I do???????? I have asked many people and tried many things but nothing seems to work. I just don’t know what to do??????
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02.23.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 5:53 am by webmaster
I found this very useful technique that you might want to try it out. This is one technique that will work 80% of the time in any situation!
But just a piece of warning - don’t try it too hard! You’ll look goofy. Read on…
I think you’re really going to like this article, because I’m going to share a little trick with you that I’ve developed that really makes it easy to meet a woman.
Too often, guys are simply too nervous to approach a girl because of the extreme amount of uncertainty involved. Think about it. What runs through your head when you want to meet a woman?
“Am I her type?”
“Does she have a boyfriend?”
“Will she find me attractive?”
“Maybe she’s too busy to meet anyone.”
“Will she be receptive to me talking to her?”
I’m sure you can think of a 100 more things that run through your mind when you see an approach opportunity come your way. If you get scared or nervous when this happens, it’s because of one thing:
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02.21.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 3:20 pm by webmaster
You Deserve To Attract Women Online!
So you’re new to online dating and don’t know where to begin? Or you already tried to put an ad without much success? So you’re new to online dating and don’t know where to begin? Or you already tried to put an ad without much success?
Then the following practical tips are for you.
Before moving on with writing or responding to online personals, the very first thing you have to do or rather to be is to be clear with your goal. Are you looking for a “serious” relationship or are you looking to have some fun?
Let’s begin with responding to online personals. Then I’ll share my formula for success for writing your own personals. I believe you’ll be able to write great ads once you become familiar with the “responding” aspect of the game.
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02.19.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 9:00 am by webmaster
A question gnawing away in the back of many people’s skulls is this: Can an ugly guy attract women?
To really beat an answer out of this question, let’s stipulate some rules. The guy has to be less than five feet tall. When his own mother looks at him, she has to think, “I love you sweetie but you are damn ugly!!”
Furthermore, attracting women as ugly as him doesn’t count.
Also… Bedding, dating, or marrying super models doesn’t cut it. Women have a host reasons for sleeping with and marrying guys besides attraction.
The crux of the issue is: Can a guy this ugly generate sexual attraction in beautiful women?
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02.18.08
Posted in Online Dating Personals at 2:51 am by webmaster
Your Perfect Match.
It’s been a long while that you have looked for a perfect match or partner who meets your expectations fully and thinks like you on similar lines. You have tried each and every source like directories and dating sites but still not found the partner of your life. Why not join perfectmatch.com where you will find not one but hundreds of singles who have so many things common with you?
Duet Compatibility System Based On 30 Years Of Research.
After you have sign up, you will be ask on information about your preferences as well as what values you are looking for in your partner. Unlike other dating sites, Perfectmatch uses the duet total compatibility system to search for the most suitable partner for you. The duet compatibility system is based on 30 years of research and it takes into account your complete personality with values and preferences which are the key factors for finding that special someone.
Hence once you finish your duet matches profile by following the expert advice and suggestions from the site you are almost ready. You can also post your photo on the site which increases the interest chances by 75% and also upload an introduction video about yourself. The photo and the video feature are very important as the other person can find out a lot about your personality.
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02.17.08
Posted in Online Dating Personals at 1:00 pm by webmaster
Registration on the site is absolutely free.
Are you a single looking for a casual date or an intimate encounter or even a long term relationship with the opposite sex? Then why not become a member of lavalife.com? At Lavalife you can simply search for a partner of the opposite sex by becoming a member of the site. Registration on the site is absolutely free. You can simply fill the online form providing details like your sex, name, email and the type of relationship that you want to establish. You can even sign up for all the options mentioned above by filling up separate forms. The whole procedure of membership just takes 5 minutes.
At Lavalife you will find one of the biggest databases of singles who are looking for their soul mate. You are free to contact as many singles you want. If you are interested in meeting your mate personally then you can search by location and find several people living just next to your house for sure. However maintaining a long distance relationship is also possible by searching for partners located in another city or even another country. You can even browse as many profiles as you want and even upload your photos for other members to see.
Watch Sexy Videos.
You increase your chances of getting interest from other members by at least 75% in case you upload your photo. Want to watch sexy videos of members of the opposite sex? Lavalife makes uploading videos possible including posting erotic videos. Hence the photo and the video session make you believe that a picture is definitely worth a thousand words.
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Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 5:34 am by webmaster
Ah ha! These are the basic etiquette every man should know and do! Read this newsletter by Tiffany Taylor…ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you’d be surprised by how many men don’t understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it’s become a bit of a cliché because it’s true — first impressions really do count.
Here are some figures to consider from my studies.
If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc).
If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions of you were bad.
It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you’re on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success – no helicopters for you.
Honestly, I can’t stress this enough — always try to look your best.
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02.16.08
Posted in Online Dating Personals at 2:00 am by webmaster
The first site that should come to your mind if you are looking for a casual date or an intimate relationship or even a long lasting relationship like marriage is date.com. This brilliant site has a very user friendly interface and you can easily find what you are searching for. Registering on the Date just takes two minutes. Registration is absolutely free. You just have to fill in a registration form wherein you have to enter details such as your sex, date, location, age, etc. You can even upload your photo to your profile which increases the chances of your profile being viewed my may people. You can start searching for profiles by setting filters like location, etc.
Some members on the site search for profiles of people who stay in the same locality or city. This is because they are looking for a partner that they are longing to date and have an intimate relationship with. However there are some members who would not mind sharing a long distance relationship with people living in a different country. In the success stories section you will be able to see many true life stores where people have found their partners from another country and are today leading a very happy life. Ever since the site was built ten years ago, thousands of members have registered and found their perfect match.
But what if you are a homosexual looking out for a partner? Date has a separate section where you can look out for partners of the same sex as yours. There have been success stories of homosexual couples as well on Date.
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