03.26.08
Women You’d Rather Not Date!
It is important to know what you’re looking for in a woman. And typologies and classifications are very useful for the screening process. Being able to quickly notice female typology gives you better chances of knowing if you want to deal further with a woman.
Before we learn about those women we should almost avoid like the plague, let’s take a look at some methodologies. Women can be described according to many continuums.
There’s the high drive – low drive (HD – LD) continuum which describes women sexual drive. Pick up artists and seducers tend to be high drive. And since you’re reading this article, I’ll assume that you’re an artists of some level in the making and hence high drive.
There’s the high self-esteem – low self-esteem (HSE – LSE) continuum which explores the level of a woman’s self-esteem. A woman’s relationship with her parents – and more specifically with her father – is a key determinant of a woman’s altitude on this continuum.
There’s also a feminine – masculine continuum. Indeed, some women are very comfortable in their feminine energy while other women display some very masculine traits (see below).
Enough of the theory. Here are some types of women you should avoid and my favourite tips on how to recognize them.
Masculine dominant chicks
This is the first type of woman to avoid (unless someone like men). Masculine dominant chicks are very logical and have by definition masculine mannerisms. Those women like to fight for domination, in a very masculine way. They like to take the lead in conversations. Those “ladies” often try to pick up guys the way a man would pick up a girly girl. You can by just feeling the masculine energy in this kind of women. You feel that they’re not girly girl at all. They have a masculine body language, enjoy manly things and straight talk. You simply can’t feel the very particular and irrational yin energy, this playful feminity which inexorably attract you towards feminine women. And so you’ll recognize them simply by being instantly repulsed by them.
LD or Low Drive Women
If you like and enjoy much sex, you may want to avoid this type. No need to elaborate further with this type of chick. You simply won’t get much action!
How can we recognize them?
If we check the four types of temperaments in people – another useful typology – choleric, sanguine, phlegmatic and melancholic – we can say that both sanguine and choleric types of girls are very high drive. Melancholic girls tend to be HD and passionate as well, but the difference lies in how they enjoy sex. The least passionate type we find is the phlegmatic type. They are often LD women and don’t react much to techniques like ball busting or cocky and funny.
If you’re looking for a Good GF, beware of the freaks and ho’s!
That’s an easy distinction: A good girl comes from love.
Ho’s or gold diggers respond to material possessions. They’re looking for financial gain.
Freaks need attention and they love sex. They respond to validation and ball busting as it creates strong emotions in them.
If you’re looking for a steady girlfriend, go for a good girl. But beware!
Good girls enjoy sex, but they like to fall in love with men as their main motive whereas Freaks do not have to be in love with anyone other than themselves and some of them even like to get guys to fall in love with them – and they enjoy the feeling of love, or rather validation, once you get down to the real deal… off they go to the next victim.
Freaks come just for male energy and are in desperate need of attention. They react to strong ball busting and cocky and funny. With them, you just have to overdo the attraction game and introduce validation centered frames in the convoy.
Good girls are looking for a boyfriend. Freaks just wanna have a good time. Ho’s just want to dip into your potential. And sex may not be part of the deal. So just avoid them.
How to recognize them?
Well, if you find a gold digger, she’ll likely expect you to pay for everything, without offering to split the bill. She will certainly ask questions about what line of work you’re in, or what car you drive. If the woman does not show explicit signs, you can still be proactive by introducing money and material possession frames in the conversation.
I’ll conclude by giving you a specific example on the recognition process.
Let’s imagine you’re picking up a girl and you run some attraction game on her and you notice that she is irresponsive to busting which normally works very well on Freaks. Then quickly switch your hook and give her a Ho signal – for example talking about an expensive restaurant and giving her a hint that you could both go there – if she’s still irresponsive give her a Good Girl hook like getting into building commonalities and genuinely getting to know her.
Women are so emotional that you can switch rapidly from a hook to another without them noticing how illogical you are being.
To sum it up, keep your standards in mind and always lead the interaction.
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