03.05.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 12:48 am by webmaster
This has to be one of the questions I hear most frequently from guys.
Why?
It’s the most intimidating question a guy can ask a woman, and one that I get asked about regularly. It feels like such a risky proposition, putting yourself out there for a woman’s approval (or rejection.)
The answer to the riddle is this: STOP asking women out!
First of all, you’re starting a program in a woman’s head that says: “He’s romantically interested in me. That means dates, and awkward kisses, and possibly sex, and then a breakup like the last one. I better not.”
Second, by asking her out, you make a woman need to figure out if she’s attracted to you the moment you ask the question. She is presented with an opportunity which requires her to figure out her interest level in YOU.
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03.03.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 12:00 am by webmaster
Here’s a typical scenario: a woman asks a man for advice or input, and he answers: “sure, whatever you want is fine with me.” Now I want to ask you: is it a bad or a good answer?Well… Bad of course… unless you want to be a woman’s doormat.
Now it’s your turn to ask me a question.
“What does it have to do with men having to make the first move?
Well…Everything.
Did you ever go to a mall, a lounge or any public place, saw a woman you found exquisitely attractive and didn’t gather the courage to talk to her? And you said to yourself, “why do we have to do this damn first move?”
Here’s a hint: this is your duty as an alpha or masculine man.
Hold on I didn’t say I doubted your masculinity.
I just said it was your duty to make the first step.
Same thing with having to initiate the first kiss – by the way wait until the end of the article to read a favourite tip of mine for this.
Before I share my perspective on “why should men initiate”, let’s get back to the guy that said “whatever you want is fine with me.”
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03.01.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 12:00 am by webmaster
Another interesting newsletter sent by Carlos Zuma.
Ok, so there’s this girl at my job that has been making many passes at me lately. She will basically tell me that she wants to hook up with me, wants to do naughty things with me, etc. I’m 21 and she’s 24. I have worked with her for about 2 years and she has never showed any signs of this. She was there back in the day when I was busting on a few attractive girls (they don’t work there anymore). The funny thing is I don’t think I’ve done anything really to spark too much attraction, she just came on to me like that.
Now, my thing is that I’m planning on leaving the job soon, and considering I’m still a virgin, I think this could be a good time to experiment sexually? What do you think?
Also, I’m kind of nervous about what to say if she asks me if I’m a virgin? Got any advice for me Carlos?
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