05.29.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 1:00 am by webmaster
Common discussion among buddies in a bar:
- Buddy 1: “I’m sure Sally likes you”
- Buddy 2: “How can you tell? I’m not so sure of that!”
- Buddy 1: “Well, dude, it’s obvious”
- Buddy 2: “Not so obvious to me, how can you tell?”
- Buddy 1: “…”
I’m sure you’re also curious to learn how to tell if a girl is interested in you. Here are some examples of signs a girl may give. You want to train yourself to recognize them on a regular basis. So here we go.
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05.19.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 12:00 pm by webmaster
Some questions I asked myself recently are what is most important in getting a girl, being romantic or seductive, and how can we reconcile the two?
Let me get the first part straight.
If you want me to tell you what is the most important trait between being romantic and being seductive in getting a girl, I would clearly say… seductive.
Why?
Because it is a prerequisite if you want to get a girl into your bed. (That’s your objective right?)
To me, trust and seduction are the two necessary ingredients that lead to sex.
If you’re just being romantic, you may create frustration in girls. Because they expect you to close the deal. Otherwise why would you be romantic in the first place? By being romantic for the sake of being romantic, you risk falling into the nice guy trap.
Remember, at times women want to witness your ‘dark’ seductive side. In other words, being seductive alone could get you laid. Being romantic alone, not.
And so there’s a fine line between being romantic and seductive. And this line is call the friend zone frontier. Make sure to stay on the good side of the line.
With that said, how to mix romance and seduction optimally?
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05.15.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 1:00 am by webmaster
How To Be Seductive
Let’s get this one straight.
How could we define “seductive”? Well, I like to define seductive as “Leading into a sexual state”. Whooo… Yeah… you read it well. I used the word sexual.
As a man, you clearly want to state your intent when it comes to move things forward with a woman you’re strongly attracted to.
But you don’t necessarily need words.
And so at this point, I want to introduce a key concept here which I call subcommunication.
I like to contrast this concept with that of surface level communication which relies on verbal content. And, if there is something I want you to remember is that words only account for 7% of your overall communication.
With that said so what is this subcommunication thingy? Read on…
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05.05.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 3:15 am by webmaster
How To Be Romantic
Warning! The ideas I will share in this article are mostly intended to guys who are already in a relationship. If you’re picking up women, I’m a proponent of not revealing too much of your romantic side. Why? Because being romantic is not enough to get you a girl. Triggering attraction and being seductive does.
If you’ve been in a relationship for quite some time, you might want to bring some romance to revitalize it.
Romanticism has this “magical” side to it. It will not go as far as transforming an ordinary relationship into a fairytale but it can add some fantasy, wonder and charm. And being romantic is sometimes necessary to show your lover that you actually care about her.
As a rule of thumb, showing your romantic side is mostly effective when your partner does not expect it. You must be able to surprise her. It means that you do not wait for Valentine’s Day or for her anniversary to show you romantic side. Express it at any given moment. Spontaneity is key.
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05.01.08
Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 2:57 am by webmaster
Creative Ways To Ask A Girl Out
This article is based on one principle: the principle of differentiation. In the business world, we use the term USP or Unique Selling Proposition. A company must have a USP in order to differentiate itself from the competition.
How does it apply to dating?
In two words: Stand Out!
When you interact with the beautiful gender, you certainly want to stand out.
And that applies to asking a girl out.
With this article I want to distinguish between two cases: either know the girl you want to ask out or you just met her.
If you already know the girl, check first if you’re not in the “let’s just be friend” zone. How to know if you’re in the friend zone? Simple, the girl treats you like one of her girl friend. There’s no sexual tension whatsoever forget about trying to date the girl and move on to another one unless you have transformed into a master pickup artist in the meantime.
At some point, I might write something about this friend zone stuff and how to get out of it.
Now, second case, you know the girl but you feel you’re not in the dead friend zone.
In that case…well… read on.
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