07.02.08
The Art of Flirting Online
Why Online
Dating online can be a lot of fun. The main advantage of the Internet in this area is that you can find potential dating partners based on the criteria you select, from the comfort of your own home.
For the shy guys, online dating is a very good practice ground. For you can dismiss the fear of being rejected in face. You can even practice with multiple women. And if you get rejected by one you can easily next her and chat with another one.
Now I want to share with you some of my favourite tips on how to flirt online.
Virtual Banter
First off, the principles that apply in the ‘real world’ also apply to the virtual world.
The latter provides the advantage of being a perfect practice ground for you to practice your bantering skills.
But first, you should be able to get a woman to instant message with you. How do you do that?
Well, let’s say that there’s something in a woman’s profile that says she’s spontaneous. So you’ll then write: “Are you spontaneous, really? Because everybody writes that.”
Women are up for a challenge. And so, by presenting a challenge, women will be more likely to answer quickly.
Keep challenging a woman until she wants to prove that she’s living to the image she’s presenting. After all, she’s just a virtual entity isn’t it?
Then you’ll say that, since she wants to prove herself. Ask the woman to send you her IM screen name. Then write that you’ll chat with her on IM instead.
Remember. You’re not asking for permission. You’re not asking: “Hey can we chat sometimes?” No. You’re giving instructions. Lead the way. Women want you to be the leader.
Bingo! Now that you’ve set an instant messaging session, your next objective is to create tension with her.
Amping up the tension
As soon as you’re instant messaging, take the girl out of the small talk range. Do not fluff about how’s her day, what does she do, etc. You’ll get out of the game instantly if you try to play it safely.
Have fun instead.
Tease her by calling her a “brat” and “bratty”.
Use funny nicknames. Tease her about her profile.
Accuse her of probably being too old for you. Hey, even accuse her of secretly being a man!
Tell her she has no life because if she did she wouldn’t be talking to guys online.
Make fun of her typing, grammar or spelling. Tell her to type faster.
Go sexual
And eventually you want to take the conversation into the sexual realms.
How?
Well play something like the “questions game”. Basically, the rules are that you ask each other questions and questions have to be interesting and daring. No place for boring questions.
She will be likely to ask what boring questions are.
Then you’ll then answer that boring questions are about family, work, etc. Tell her they have to be about something interesting and exciting – something like “questions you’ve always wanted to ask a guy.”
If she hesitates, remind her that she faked herself as a spontaneous person! Game on.
Tell her that since you’re a gentleman and you’ve been raised well, you’ll let her go first.
At some point, and often immediately, she’ll ask something about your favourite position or the craziest place you had sex.
Now you have to avoid answers such as: “Yeah I like to bang women on top.” Not good. Instead use very descriptive words that will appeal to her senses. Learn to speak “women language”.
Say something like “I love to give a hot, sensual, erotic massage.” And then describe it detail by detail… talking about how you love to flip her on her stomach, how you love to put oil and rub your hands together to get them all warm so she can feel the sensation of how warm the oil is on your big, large hands.
And… that’s it. After that you’re pretty much on your own. You can continue to practice or schedule a meeting and move your interaction to the real world.
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