08.13.08
Top Male Attributes That Annoy Women
The Three Word Man: Ass Kissing Guy
I believe the male archetype that mostly frustrates a woman is the ass kissing guy.
The ass kissing guy is her boy.
The ass kissing guy is the one who gives her whatever she wants.
The ass kissing guy follows his woman around saying “OK honey, whatever you want” and “I’m sorry” and “What’s wrong sweetie?”
The ass kissing guy actually should be called ass kissing girly-man, because he acts kind of like a girl.
Women who have dominant and controlling traits like to have an ass kissing guy around as a boyfriend for awhile – sometimes they even marry them.
The Visible Attributes of the Ass Kissing Guy
Another terminology for ass kissing guys is beta guys, as opposed to alpha men.
In nature, the beta animal is the one that is secondary to the Alpha. In many groups of animals, this indicates only the next rank down from the leader.
With that said, here are some ass kissing or beta guy behaviour traits.
- Overly reactive
- Can’t maintain eye contact
- Has slumped, submissive posture
- Fidgets nervously
- Gives away his power
- Looks for attention and approval from others
- Dates women that “that choose” him (if he’s lucky enough)
- Lacks goals or direction
- Unable to focus his energy on any one task to completion
- Afraid of competition
- Over rationalizes: Creates intricate mental illusions to avoid taking action in his life
- In his head
- Afraid to lead
- Afraid to “fight”
- Does not develop his strengths or work on self-improvement
- Changes to “go with the flow”, accommodating other people’s schedules
- People-pleasing – especially women
- Defusing confrontations in non-assertive ways, avoids any conflict.
The ass kissing guy is much happier letting someone else direct his life. He’s generally capable of living his own life, but he’s mostly helpless on his own.
Other Repelling Archetypes
Here are some other archetypes that women find deeply annoying. These are the types that generally turn women off. You sometimes encounter them in brainless adolescent movies (think American Pie).
The hippie: he does not care about grooming and clothing.
The nerd: he’s not socially educated. He’s deeply mis-calibrated.
The redneck: does not need any elaboration.
The proud-arrogant and ignorant of it: again, speaks for itself.
The insecure and needy: he’s clingy and smothering physically and emotionally.
The afraid man: he won’t take risks in life.
The mommy’s boy: needs mom’s approval to go on a date after 8 p.m.. Won’t grow up.
The argument man: he argues about everything all the time.
Don’t be any of those archetypes.
In my opinion, there is only one place to be – at the top of the heap. Accepting anything less is settling for a life half-lived. Championship winners are remembered, not the Division Champions, even though the Championship winners only won one more game than them.
’Nough said.
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