08.20.08
How to Convert a Friendship into Romance (Part 1)
I want to share with you a very intimate secret.
In fact, more than a secret, it is a skill that I want to share with you.
And this skillet is about… How to convert friends into lovers.
Not just any friends either…close friends!
If you apply the ideas I’ll share in this article, you’ll become a true Friend-Zone Escape Artist!
Onwards onto some deep revelations…
The Golden Rule Above All Rules
Never, ever, express your feelings directly. Don’t tell her that you see her as more than a friend.
It just does not work like this.
The only way you make the change is by her confessing her feelings for you, or you taking the initiative
and kissing her like it was some crazy accident of passion.
Now obviously, there are a few things you must communicate to her before this can happen:
- You don’t need her.
- You find her attractive but she has competition.
- You have high standards.
You Don’t Need Her
Don’t be so readily available.
Have enough going on in your life that no girl is a priority. Pursue your dreams and hobbies, so your focus is mainly on yourself.
This gives you a perfectly legitimate excuse to flake on her once in a while and then “Make it up to her” by taking her out and showing her the time of her life.
It is also crucial to have other prospects going on in order to kill any desperation sign you might still be projecting.
You Find Her Attractive But She Has Competition
Start noticing other attractive girls when you are with her and commenting on it “Damn, she is fine!” Stare other girls down and become distracted until your “pal” starts to get a little miffed.
Tell her not to get her panties in a twist because she is also totally hot and she knows it.
Its okay to compliment her like this when it is balanced by your wandering eye. It also communicates that you find her attractive, but in a very detached way.
She might try to flip it on you and talk about other guys but don’t let it phase you. Take interest in it and find out what attracts her most about men.
You Have High Standards
Talk about the things you require in a woman. This is a subtle way of qualifying her.
Tell her how you once thought that the key to happiness was being able to approach any girl and hookup at anytime. But after you finally overcame your fears and was able to hook consistently, you realized how many women just don’t meet your standards (intelligent, funny, knows how to cook, whatever).
Let this conversation build and get her to talk about what makes a great boyfriend. Listen to her and give her feedback as this convo unfolds. She will probably have a lot to say.
Let that conversation fizzle out and then talk about one of your past flings where the girl seemed perfect for you in every way.
Really build this up.
“This girl was really a good cook, she gave great massage and even loved basketball! She was the bomb! except… she was a terrible lover.
This will build curiosity and of course she will ask what made this girl so bad in bed.
This leads smoothly into…
Part 2 coming soon.
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