09.03.08

How to Convert a Friendship into Romance (Part 2)

Posted in Dating Advice (Men) at 9:08 am by webmaster

Continued from Part 1.

Be Sexual

Talk about sex.

Mention things that you like being done to you but most girls are not keen on. Talk about it like you are casually talking about the weather.

Just be comfortable letting her see your sexual side, because she is your friend after all.

Once you tell her a little bit about what you like, close up a little and act somewhat apprehensive.

Say “Hey, this is not fair! Here I am giving you the inside scoop and getting nothing in return!” Prod her for a few sexual details… what her favourite position is…. what gives her the most powerful orgasm….who was her
best lay and why.

If she gets suspicious or uncomfortable, tell her that if she was really your friend she’d give you some killer tips and how its good karma because one day some lucky girl will thank her.

Understand the Value of Sex with a Connection

Talk about the difference between how animals copulate and how human beings make love. Talk about how it is so much more intense and beautiful when you really connect with someone.

Anchor your previous stories as if it is a revelation and say “Hmmm, maybe that’s another reason that girl rocked my world. We were actually good friends before anything happened.”

And so the seed is planted…

Be Physically Affectionate

After building up the sexual tension, toss some little innocent touch in the mix.

Comment on her jewellery and touch her. If it is a ring hold her hand and admire it then let her hand go with a slow slide. If its an earring, let the backs of your fingers grace her cheek.

Do not grope her! Think of this physical contact as subtle displays of tenderness.

Also when you hug her, make it count: Wrap your arms all the way around her so she feels all enclosed and protected, then squeeze her tight and give her little kisses on the cheek.

Give Conflicting Messages that Hint at Your Desire

Tell her how special she is and you wish more girls were as cool as her and you are glad that you guys are pals.

Then tell her she smells really nice and get close to her neck for a closer whiff and ask what perfume she is wearing.

Joke around and say that she must not wear this perfume around you anymore because it drives you crazy and just might “ruin” your friendship. Say this in half-jest “Keep wearing that perfume and I just might attack you someday!”

If she continues to wear that same scent in the future, consider it a huge indicator of her interest, aka she wants  you!

Don’t Let Flings Ruin Friendships

Give her some reassurance.

At some point, mention how you are still friends with most of your ex’s because you think it’s a waste of time and energy to just write off the people who played such powerful roles in your life.

Girls always agree with me when I say this. It also helps alleviate her fear of jeopardizing the friendship if she acts on her desires. This is your loophole for managing her expectations in case things don’t work out.

And that’s pretty much it.

Have fun with it!

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