09.17.08
Seductive Talk that Women Enjoy
Make it sexual
When you meet a woman, a window of potential opens. She wonders if you will sweep her off her feet.
If you let that window close she will make the presumption you either don’t like her in a sexual way or are afraid to make it sexual. At that point, she will become bored and either place you in the “let’s just be friends” category or just walk away.
That’s why you don’t want to play safe by only bringing up “nice guy” topics to talk about.
You want to sex the convo up.
The truth
“The truth is that women get turned off by men who bring up sexual topics in a conversation.”
Beeep!! Wrong.
The Truth is that a woman is going to be more turned on by your ability to communicate about her pleasure than by most of the things you will actually do to her physically.
The key to a woman’s sex drive lies in her brain.
Sensual words
Lay the groundwork along the way by using sensory words in your speech.
Here are some examples of sensory words:
Passion
Intense
Excitement
Tingling
Heartbeat
Pleasure
Comfortable
Heat
Trusting
Radiant
Trance
Enthral
Attraction
Soothing
Just don’t use too many of these at one time, or you’ll risk coming off sounding like a sappy romance novel.
Vulgar vs. erotic
You absolutely should avoid using any gutter language. When you talk about sex, women like it best when body parts are referred to in non-vulgar terms.
In fact, if you can think in terms of poetry, it is highly recommended you use that angle.
Let’s compare, which do you think sounds better whispered in her ear?
“I feel like banging you harder than a stick of dynamite, you wench…”
“It’s so hot and intense next to you like this, like an electric charge…”
The difference here is what one calls dirty versus erotic, and erotic is what she wants to hear when it comes to talking about having sex with her.
Tell her what’s on your mind
Let a woman know you find her attractive after she has been talking one-on-one with you awhile. The best line you will ever use: Fifteen minutes into dialogue with her you say, “Wow, I just realized, not just are you sexy but you’re fun to talk with.”
A favourite technique of mine is to acknowledge my desire and then to slightly take it away.
You can say for instance, “I think you are completely sexy. But … never mind.” With that “but” follow by a pause, you’ll make her chasing after you for the answer.
Take advantage of any situation. So if you live with your parents, you can say “I want to show you my fish tank. But my parents are there so it may be only the fish that gets wet”.
Remember. State your desire and acknowledge her concerns.
And so that’s it.
Master the art of seductive talking and women will be ripping your clothes off at the end of the night.
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