10.15.08
How To Tell If She’s Interested
While men are mostly proficient with verbal communication, most of them are inexperienced when it comes to interpret the ‘language’ women speak. In particular, men have often a difficult time reading a woman’s signs of interest or disinterest.
Here I want to share with you some tips that will help you read a woman’s signs of interest.
Here We Go
It’s Not The Words
A woman will very rarely – if ever – directly acknowledge verbally that she’s attracted to you. If that’s the case, beware as she may try to manipulate you or get something from you.
Different women do different things when they are attracted to a man, and those things are mostly non-verbal.
The below list shows some of the more common signs of attraction
Signs of Attraction
She reinitiates conversation when you stop talking.
She giggles.
She touches you.
She plays with / tosses her hair.
She asks you for your name or any other personal questions (e.g., age, where you live).
She disagrees with you but laughs when she does.
She asks if you have a girlfriend or mentions your girlfriend, whether or not you’ve said you have
one.
She introduces you to her friends.
She is laughing, smiling, and/or holding eye contact with you.
Passive signs
Passive signs are indicators of a different type. Instead of doing something to convey attraction, she shows her interest in you by not doing something that she would otherwise do if she weren’t attracted.
For example, she might stay to talk to you when her friends go to the bathroom. Even the very act of spending a significant amount of time with you (generally over 30 minutes) at a busy, exciting, nightclub could be a passive sign.
Caveats
No sign is definitive. A woman can do some of the things on this list without being attracted to you, or she can engage in none of them and still be attracted. These are guides, not laws of physics.
It is easy to get addicted to signs of attraction. They feel good, and if you’re not used to them, they feel like little wins (“this beautiful woman is actually attracted to me!”).
The Main Signal
And the main signal that you have to look for simply is, ‘Is she acting friendly to me?’
That’s it. Now, of course some women are more forward than others; but overall, if a woman is acting friendly and keeping up an interesting conversation, you’re usually doing pretty well.
Don’t Forget to Move Things Forward
And finally the key is to continue to the next step always.
Realize that you need to keep advancing.
And so if your conversation is going well, ask for a phone number.
If you’re out for a walk and the conversation seems to be going well, reach over and kiss her.
Women like this and expect it. If they’re not comfortable, they’ll let you know. But don’t worry. Just
keep going and advance again at the next opportunity.
That’s it.
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