10.29.08
Traits That Attract Women
Today I want to address the one million dollar question: what women do find attractive in a man.
What Women Say Is Irrelevant
If you directly ask a woman what she likes in a man, you can be sure she will give a déjà vu answer such as “Oh I like them strong and tall” or “Oh l want a gentle man who will take care of me” or “Oh I prefer a mysterious man with dark hair”.
So remember this rule: what a woman says has nothing to do with how she’ll actually respond in a masculine presence.
Be aware that when a woman says she prefers some type of guy, she’s just stating a general preference.
Automatic Response
Realize that women respond automatically to certain men, and most of their response is based on the man’s personality, communication, attitude, etc. – not primarily his looks.
They are usually not consciously aware of why they react to certain masculine types.
Two Most Important Traits
And the following traits that I’m about to share with you, when internally and externally demonstrated, will yield you power and charisma with women.
The first inner trait to develop is self-confidence.
Self-confidence is your projection of yourself and your security. When you have self-confidence, you are projecting that:
You’re happy with yourself
You’re not afraid of life or what is coming in the future
You have a positive attitude
You know where you’re going
You’re independent, not dependent and needy.
It all begins and ends here.
Self-esteem is a large part of the self-confidence you project, and it’s how proud you are to be you.
The second trait is having a good sense of humor. I mean, actually having a good sense of humor.
The ability to make a woman laugh is probably your number one asset. We all want to laugh, and stable, sane women love to laugh.
If you don’t have a well-developed funny bone, now is the time to work on it.
Consider this: Not very many people are funny. Oh, and also, realize that true comedy, on the level of Eddie Murphy or Robin Williams, is pretty rare. So don’t feel bad at all if you don’t think you’re a one-man laugh machine.
You don’t have to be a great comedian to get women to laugh.
The interesting thing is that most women will laugh with you out of sheer nervousness; all
they need is a gentle poke in the ribs.
Humor conveys many different things. But most of all it shows a certain level of self-confidence of its own.
You can’t demonstrate a sense of humor without displaying a little confidence at the same time. It also shows you don’t take life too seriously, and that you’re not so intense that you can’t crack a joke about the silly parts of life around you. It lets a woman know she can breathe a little and not be so intense and on-stage.
Cultivate those traits as a critical part of your internal game and you’ll be able to generate attraction on a consistent basis.
If you are starting out on these, online personal is a great training pad for you to go to.
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